Ray J Norwood has romanced Kim Kardashian and Lil' Kim, but who's his greatest love of all? It appears to be Whitney Houston, whom Ray J reportedly has been seeing on and off since early 2007.

"We're real good friends," Ray J, 28, tells Life & Style. "We always hang out. We'll probably hang out in the future, you know what I mean?"

But the 45-year-old singing legend now has to share Ray J these days — his new VH1 reality dating show, For the Love of Ray J, premieres on Feb. 2. "Viewers will see how I act not only around women but in my life in general," he says. "It's a look into the person I really am."

For more on Ray J and the women in his life, pick up the latest issue of Life & Style, on newsstands now!

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