There was one main topic of conversation when Kate Hudson joined mom Goldie Hawn for a martini at Strada 57 in NYC on Dec. 14: men who cheat. Just hours after news broke online that Kate and her boyfriend of a year, New York Yankees slugger Alex Rodriguez, had split, "Kate began talking about the Tiger Woods situation," an onlooker tells Life & Style exclusively.

"She was saying that she knows what it feels like. It sounded like she was talking about how guys have such a sex drive, they just can't help it. It was clear Kate and A-Rod were fighting or had broken up from the way she was speaking about him. At one point, Goldie told Kate, 'Just take the high road. Lead your own way.'"

A friend of Kate's confirms to Life & Style that A-Rod is in fact a free agent -- for now. "They're broken up for the moment," says the friend. "Kate has some trust issues with A-Rod. She doesn't know for sure if there is another woman, but there's a girl she thinks he has a crush on. She's been worrying about other women for a while and is definitely the jealous type."

For more on Kate and A-Rod, pick up the new issue of Life & Style, on newsstands now.

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