Tobey Maguire and Jennifer Meyer announced their divorce on Oct. 18, but Life & Style has exclusively learned that the couple is taking their time when it comes to physically saying farewell.

“They have been separated since early summer,” the insider says. “but they are still living together and co-parenting.”

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The Spiderman actor and jewelry designer, who were married for nine years, are parents to daughter Ruby, 9, and son Otis, 7, and according to the source, “are still friends and want to keep it that way for their children.”

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“Tobey is a good dad and a very good provider,” adds a source. “That will help them move forward amicably.”

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