She luhs her papi — but doesn’t know if she wants to get married to him! Jennifer Lopez has put her plans to wed Alex Rodriguez on hold, an insider exclusively tells Life & Style. According to the source, the pop superstar, 47, is getting cold feet.

“Jennifer keeps telling Alex that she’s ‘just not there yet,’” says the insider. “A-Rod has been begging J.Lo to set a wedding date. She loves him, but she’s told him that until she says otherwise, the wedding is on hold.”

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The source tells Life & Style that the thrice-divorced Jennifer is pulling the breaks on their wedding because she is scared of yet another divorce. The Shades of Blue actress shares nine-year-old twins Max and Emme with ex-husband Marc Anthony, from whom she finalized her divorce in 2014. She was also previously married to backup dancer Cris Judd from 2001 to 2003, and to actor Ojani Noa from 1997 to 1998.

“Jennifer worries she’s going to make another mistake. Three ex-husbands are enough,” the source continues. “She doesn’t work well under pressure. A-Rod has to back off.”

J.Lo’s hesitation comes just weeks after she accepted a proposal from Alex, 41, during a romantic trip to Paris. “He got down on one knee and asked J.Lo to marry him,” an insider exclusively told us last month. “J.Lo burst into tears and said yes!”

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Though she may regret agreeing to a lifetime of commitment with the retired baseball player, the “Waiting for Tonight” songstress is still enjoying their time together. Jenny From the Block couldn’t help but gush over the athlete when asked about their relationship during a July 2 interview with Extra.

"He's a loving father. He's a generous human being with his family, with his friends, with me," she said of the dad-of-two, who shares daughters Natasha, 12, and Ella, 8, with his ex-wife, Cynthia Scurtis. "He's caring and sweet and capable and responsible and just all the beautiful things you would want a man to be. I feel really lucky right now, so I'm excited about life, but I'm more excited for people to get to see who he really is.”

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