Life & Style Weekly has exclusively learned that Ben Affleck has officially ended things with his kids’ former nanny, Christine Ouzounian, the woman at the center of his divorce from Jennifer Garner.

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“He cut ties with her recently,” a source reveals to Life & Style. “He told Christine he couldn’t handle another relationship when things were still so painful and raw between him and Jen.”

Adds an insider close to Christine, “He had fun with [her], but it wasn’t love.”

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According to the source, the nanny was “blindsided” and did not take the breakup well. “When Ben finally told Christine things were over, she was pissed,” says the insider.

“She told friends she asked him point-blank, ‘What about all the things you promised me?’ Ben didn’t have an answer, but he knew better than to engage her any further. Christine is very upset and says Ben should be worried. In her mind, this is far from over.”

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Ben and Jen in happier times.

Life & Style has also learned that Christine is mulling over an offer to appear on the British reality show I’m a Celebrity…Get Me Out of Here!, which has famous alums such as Kendra Wilkinson. “Producers want Christine to spice up the show,” says a TV insider.

For more inside their split, pick up the new issue of Life & Style, on newsstands now!