Don’t let your S.O. in on the holiday secrets, y’all. Kim Kardashian recently shared the cutest ad she filmed with Jennifer Lopez, in which the KUWTK star and the singer hilariously snub Jen’s fiancé, Alex Rodriguez, when he tries to get involved in some “top secret” party planning. While the two celeb pals powwow in face masks, the former MLB player tries to take part in the convo (in his own mask, BTW) and gets totally ignored.

“With @portalfromfacebook smart video calling, living across the country doesn’t stop me from feeling like I’m with @jlo in the same room 👯‍♀️,” Kim, 39, captioned the funny clip on Instagram. Guess you win some, you lose some, A-Rod!