Fourth time’s a charm? Halle Berry famously endured three painful, public divorces — with baseball player David Justice, singer Eric Benét, and actor Olivier Martinez. But the Oscar winner’s newest relationship might be the one that finally sticks.

Word only recently spread that the 51-year-old is dating British music producer Alex da Kid — whose real name is Alexander Grant. However, an insider tells Life & Style exclusively that Halle has been secretly dating the 35-year-old for almost four months. “They first met in Cannes [France] in June and have been dating ever since,” the source adds.

alex da kid — getty

According to the insider, the couple initially chose to keep their romance under wraps. Instead of stepping out at events or having date nights at LA hot spots, they opted for “intimate dinners at each other’s homes.” The only exception was on June 24, when she and musician were spotted at Beverly Hills restaurant Il Cielo. An onlooker says they “held hands and were whispering in each other’s ears throughout the evening.”

That sort of secrecy has since gone out the window, with the actress first flaunting her relationship at a London Fashion Week event on Sept. 18. The next day, she confirmed her relationship on Instagram, posting a black-and-white photo of the two in a cozy embrace. The mother-of-two captioned the shot, “My balance.”

View this post on Instagram

My balance

A post shared by Halle Berry (@halleberry) on

Now, the Kingsman: The Golden Circle star hopes this will be the happy ending she’s so wanted for her and her kids, daughter Nahla, 9, and son Maceo, 3. After finalizing her divorce from Olivier in December 2016, Halle said “she will never marry again,” the insider notes. “But I could see her changing her mind with Alex.”