It’s been nearly five years since Laguna Beach star Kristin Cavallari tied the knot with NFL star Jay Cutler and now she tells Life & Style the secret to a lasting marriage in Hollywood. She and Jay, 35, live in Nashville with kids Camden, 5, Jaxon, 4, and Saylor, 2.

She tells Life & Style the secret to a happy Hollywood marriage is "not living in Hollywood, honestly."

"It's just a different world living in LA, with paparazzi," she notes to Life & Style. "It's a lot harder. I think living in Nashville helps our whole relationship."

Kristin is set to star in the new reality show Very Cavallari on E!, and Jay will make appearances. "I think he secretly had fun doing it," Kristin says. "He would never admit it, but I think he did."