Poor Khloé! Tristan Thompson jetted out to Los Angeles for Valentine’s Day, but not to spend the night with Khloé Kardashian. The NBA player was spotted chatting up women at bars instead of spoiling his baby mama. One insider told us, “Tristan was being flirty, hitting up girls” at the Pineapple Hill Saloon in Sherman Oaks on Thursday, February 14.

The source went on to tell Life & Style that Tristan, 27, chatted and took pics with girls at the bar. That same evening, he was seen dining with his friends while Koko apparently hung out at home with their daughter. “I saw him having dinner last night with two other guys,” said a second eyewitness who spotted the controversial baller at Gyu-Kaku restaurant in Sherman Oaks. “They probably play basketball too because they were really tall. He was calm and casual.” The second source noted that he “passed by quickly” and didn’t appear to be talking to any women, but that apparently changed at his next stop. “It’s sad he wasn’t with Khloé on Valentine’s Day,” the second insider said.

Just hours before going into labor with her first child, True Thompson, Tristan cheated on Khloé, 34, and it was captured on video. In the months since that scandal first broke, there’s been constant speculation as to whether Tristan and Khloé are still together. Tristan was allowed in the delivery room for his daughter’s birth, but just how lovey-dovey he and Khloé have been since is a bit of a mystery to the public, and to Keeping Up With the Kardashians fans in particular.

On Friday, February 15, a family insider told Radar Online of the couple, “They are done — for good. Khloé began to see what everyone else had been seeing for months: that he doesn’t deserve her.” They continued, “Khloé suspected he had cheated on her during the holidays, and that was when she decided to remain in Los Angeles with True,” the source explained. Now, “her only priority is True.” Hopefully, if Tristan was out flirting on Valentine’s Day, it’s because he and Khloé really are over, and they’re both ready to move on.