For most people, the idea of having a slumber party with several of your exes AND your current fiancée is nothing short of torturous, but apparently it doesn’t bother Arie Luyendyk Jr. at all! On Oct. 7, he shared a bunch of behind-the-scenes videos with his ex Bachelor girlfriends, and we dare you not to cringe watching it. Watch the video above to see all of the shenanigans!

To be fair, it seemed like the girls were really there to hang out with Lauren Burnham, not Arie. Sienne Flemming, Jacqueline Trumbull, Maquel Cooper, and Jenna Cooper all became pals with Lauren while living together during Arie’s season, and it looks like they had a great time reuniting in New York, even if their ex was there.

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Of all the fish at the market he was my fav ?

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We’re guessing that the girls’ trip was a nice mental break for Jenna, who has been dealing with the fallout of a wild cheating scandal following Season 5 of Bachelor in Paradise. On the night she went out with the girls, her ex-fiancé Jordan Kimball actually shared screenshots of an email allegedly sent by Jenna’s lawyer, which seems to accuse Jordan of setting her up by faking the texts that made her look like a cheater. We bet she could use a drink with her friends after all that drama! 

Despite the controversy, it seems like there’s no awkwardness between Arie, Lauren, and his exes. As a matter of fact, Lauren and Arie seem happier than ever together. In Sept., Lauren gushed about her hubby on his birthday, writing, “Happy birthday to my forever best friend and love of my life! You are unlike anyone I’ve ever met and truly the best person I know. Here’s to a whole lot more laughs, love, adventures and moments that take our breath away.?” How cute are they?! 

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