Getting a new sibling can take some time to get used to, and that seems to be the case for Christina Anstead‘s oldest son, Brayden. The 36-year-old shared a sweet video of her 4-year-old talking to his newborn brother, Hudson, on Thursday, November 14, and revealed how the siblings are getting along.

“Baby Hudson has probably been the biggest adjustment for Bray. (Well maybe not but he’s the only one who actually says so lol),” the Christina on the Coast star captioned the video of Bray and Hudson. “It can be a bit tough when he just wants ‘alone time,’ but I’m sure he will be loving it when they can play together and cause all that brotherly mayhem! Plus, Bray you will always have the best lashes in the family.” What a sweet mama!

Despite the fact that he’s getting used to not being the only boy around anymore, Brayden is doing a great job with his little brother. In the clip the mom of three shared, he tells Hudson, “Hey, I’m your big brother.” Amelie Anstead, who’s Christina’s husband Ant Anstead’s daughter, found the interaction between the siblings hilarious. “This is my favorite video ever!” she commented followed by a laughing crying face emoji. Christina shares Taylor and Brayden with ex-husband, Tarek El Moussa, while Ant shares two children from a previous relationship, Archie and Amelie.

Christina Anstead's Son Is Having Trouble Adjusting to His Baby Bro
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Brayden isn’t the only one having a hard time adjusting to all these changes. After giving birth to Hudson in September, Christina had to find balance in her life. “Newborn life is hard,” she captioned an IG selfie she posted in October. “It’s not all Instagram filters of perfection that people put out there. F that. That’s so misleading for new moms. I haven’t been online or posting much because my hands are full — literally. Huds is definitely a tough baby. He will sometimes cry for hours straight.” She’s doing an amazing job at parenting, though!

While Christina is an expert at multitasking with three kids, Tarek can wait to start a family. The Flip or Flop star has been dating Heather Rae Young since August, and though they’re serious about each other, they’re not ready to have kids.

“I have an amazing 4-year-old and an amazing 8-year-old,” he exclusively told Life & Style in September of his son and daughter, who has since turned 9. “I’m trying to wrangle those two, right. It’s good enough for me right now.” Good for him!