Although they wed in Italy in 2014, David Burtka and his husband, Neil Patrick Harris, have been together for 13 years — but David admits to Life & Style magazine that their family isn’t as perfect or easy as it seems.

“We go to couples therapy,” David reveals. “Not that there’s anything wrong, but it’s nice to sort of just talk to someone who is a mediator. That’s helped our relationship."

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Clearly, it’s working, because David, 41, can’t help but fawn over all the sweet things his husband, who he shares six-year-old twins Harper and Gideon with, loves to do for him — adding that Neil, 43, leaves him love notes and is “always doing romantic stuff.”

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“He’s the best,” David gushes.

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