What TF is happening? Just two weeks ago, Miley Cyrus’ little sister Noah Cyrus was making her red carpet debut with her boyfriend, rapper Lil Xan at the 2018 Video Music Awards and now, it seems like things are already over between them. The couple split over Labor Day Weekend, and they both took turns sharing their side of their very public breakup on social media. Watch the video above to find out why Lil Xan and Noah broke up!

Honestly, it was a whirlwind of events and a lot of he said, she said but Noah is using this an opportunity to be a role model for her younger fans and to send a very strong, positive message about relationships with her female fans. In a now-deleted Instagram Live video, the 18-year-old tearfully thanked her fans for their support and she shared what this breakup has taught her.

“I can’t wait to leave LA and go on tour and see you guys and I can’t wait to just get away from every f–king person that like, goes into your life and just crushes it and crumbles it and makes you feel like a piece of f–king s–t. Don’t let people do that to you — especially if you’re in a relationship,” she told her fans. “Never let a man make you feel like you’re less of yourself or like you’re the problem when you were the one that sat around, being there for somebody, waiting for them to call you and hang out with you because you just like them and you wanna be there for them and you’re just that call at the end of the night whenever somebody wants a booty f–king call — that’s what you f–king are.”

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“But you stick around because you like a guy so f–king much, right? That you want to sit around and you wanna f–king be there for them, right? So you do whatever to do that and be in a relationship with them but then they go and flip the situation around, right?” She continued. “Don’t let a man do that to you — especially if you’re a young little girl watching, take it from somebody that’s just starting to learn about love and relationships. And if you’re young and you haven’t started being in relationships yet, be smart of how manipulative people can be in a relationship.”