In it to win it! Sandra Bullock and Bryan Randall are serious. Really serious. “The live together [in LA], and Bryan is like a father to Sandra’s kids,” a source exclusively tells Life & Style of the star’s adopted children, Louis, 7, and Laila, 5.

Photographer Bryan has been ready to tie the knot for a while now, but Sandra (who was humiliated by her first husband, Jesse James, when he cheated on her) has been hesitant, the insider says. But after two years together, Sandra, 53, is coming around.

“They both say that when they get married, they’ll elope,” the source says. They’re looking at small towns in France, says an insider, for a ceremony that would include the kids and a few very close friends. But that’s not the only huge step they’re weighing. The couple are thinking about expanding their family. “Sandra and Bryan have talked about adopting a child together,” reveals the source. “[Bryan is] all for it!”

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As previously reported, Bryan — a 52-year-old former model with a college-aged daughter named Skylar — moved into Sandra’s seven-bedroom estate last fall after just months of dating. During a December 2015 interview with People magazine, Sandra said that her family life has never felt more complete than with Bryan by her side.

“I have no idea what a ‘traditional family’ looks like anymore,” the Oscar winner said at the time. “If a traditional home is one that is filled with lots of love and poop jokes, no sleep, schedule books filled with more kids’ social events than adults’ and lots of yelling over who touched who first…then I have a very traditional family.”

Though she was once unsure about the idea of remarrying, Sandra said that she definitely sees herself “in a committed, safe relationship where there is lots of love and laughter” with “‘making memories’ No. 1 on the to-do list.” Looks like she’s definitely found that with Bryan!

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