Let’s be real, Real Housewives of New Jersey stars Melissa Gorga and her husband, Joe Gorga, are totally #MarriageGoals. The 40-year-old reality star spoke exclusively with Life & Style about how they got that way — and it all comes down to keeping their relationship fresh and fun.

“I think we’ve been very vocal over the fact that we’re very … we have a sexual relationship, although I’ve been trying to tell him like I’m 40 now, can we like take it down a notch or like one less day, but he’s not having it,” the Italian mama revealed. But that’s not all that keeps their love alive, y’all.

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“Joe and I still date, we still go out. Like when we first met, we really, really do. Like, I am really fun,” she continued. “I think I keep the fun in the relationship and we really have a fun relationship so we didn’t ever like lay down and say, oh we’re getting old. Like no, what, I feel like I’m 28.”

According to RHONY star Sonja Morgan, Joe was more than thrilled to watch his wife work while filming their “Work Done” music video with Fiber One, to debut the brand’s new 70 calories bar. “During the Fiber One video he was on the sidelines taking all the pictures,” the 55-year-old recalled.

“He truly is your biggest fan!” Real Housewives of Atlanta star Porsha Williams remarked about Melissa’s hubby’s support and dedication.

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“We were shooting you like the whole day and Joe was there the whole time for the Fiber One shoot and watched every move you had,” the blonde New Yorker revealed about the shoot. “And you had a lot of moves.”

The Atlanta mama couldn’t believe how on point Melissa’s man was during filming. “You’ve trained him so well. He takes the best pictures. The angles, I mean, the commitment!” she laughed.

Naturally, the Gorga matriarch was proud of her longtime love. “He knows, he knows which way to move and where the light is and all of that,” she said. “He killed it.”