Things are looking up this year for singer Selena Gomez. On the heels of ex-boyfriend Justin Bieber‘s marriage to Hailey Baldwin and the anticipation of her upcoming album, Rare, the 27-year-old is actually thriving. In fact, an insider spoke with Life & Style exclusively about how confident the singer is as she embraces the new year and the road ahead.

“Selena’s feeling more confident than ever before, and with the help of therapy, [she] has learned not to conform to Hollywood or change herself to fit in,” the source exclusively revealed. “While she loves fashion and getting dressed up, she’s equally as comfortable being seen out wearing no makeup.”

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Get it, girl! Besides, it’s all about finding what works for you. “Selena’s created a healthy balance in her life. She loves her work, but will also take some time off and treat herself to nice vacations and spa weekends,” the insider continued.

Plus, the brunette beauty is just really ready to embark on a new era musically. “She’s super excited about dropping her new comeback album,” the source dished. “It’s taken quite a while to complete because she wanted it to be perfect but is really happy with the outcome. She’s also in talks about touring and producing more TV series.”

The singer made her comeback to TV as an executive producer on 13 Reasons Why  — and clearly, she’s more interested in pursuing those opportunities than focusing on love at the moment. “She’s in a great place and would love to meet the man of her dreams this year, but it isn’t her number one priority!” another source recently revealed. “Justin is a distant memory.”

Considering her ex got married back in September 2019 and she spent his wedding day hanging out with close pals, it seems as though she doesn’t really have romance on the brain. “She’s been on a couple of dates with different guys, but right now there’s no one serious in her life,” the insider said. “She’s having fun hanging out with her closest friends.”

Selena Gomez Dinner With Friends During justin Bieber and Hailey Baldwin's wedding
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One thing’s for sure: 2020 is Selena’s year. It can only go up from here, girl!