Worst 'Bachelor' Fantasy Suite Dates: Sex Stories, Fights, More

While the fantasy suite dates on The Bachelor and The Bachelorette are supposed to be filled with romance and physical connection, they sometimes take a very uncomfortable or dramatic turn.

One major awkward situation came when the Bachelor Nation producers turned up the heat during season 24 by having the final three of Peter Weber’s final contestants — Madison Prewett, Hannah Ann Sluss and Victoria Fuller — all live together while each woman had their own overnight date.

This idea was propelled by production wanting to create an “uncomfortable zone” for Madi, former host Chris Harrison previously explained when asked why the Alabama native was bunking with Hannah Ann and Victoria ahead of the season finale.

Madi is a virgin, who holds her faith very close, and her expectations for Peter included him not being intimate with anyone else. However, she had not shared that with the pilot, and the producers thought turning up the heat with Hannah Ann and Victoria present would help move things along.

“There are things that we do as producers that will force you into this uncomfortable zone and force you into making a decision,” Chris explained on the “Bachelor Happy Hour” podcast at the time. “Sometimes we do it for your behalf; sometimes we do it for the guys or the girls. This situation was pretty extraordinary because Peter had kicked the can down the road but also, this time Madison had. And so this was to force a situation that had to happen, and it had to happen this week.”

Madison did express her thoughts and feelings to Peter, but he ended up getting intimate with his other contestants during their overnight dates. He and Madi gave their relationship another go after the season wrapped — and the leading man broke things off with former fiancée Hannah Ann — but they ultimately went their separate ways for good in March 2020.

Not every awkward moment happens on camera. Former Bachelorette Ali Fedotowsky exclusively told Life & Style she had an escape plan for her overnight date with runner-up Chris Lambton.

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“I had the producer call the room to say that they needed me so I could leave,” Ali, who went on to get engaged to ex-fiancé Roberto Martinez, admitted about her not-so-fantasy suite date with Chris. “So, I didn’t spend the night. But, that wasn’t played on the show. Nobody knew that.”

She added, “For me, you know, I only had one real overnight date … You sleep with the person. You do. I know a lot of past Bachelors and Bachelorettes sleep with every single person. All three. I did not. I only did with one, but I know that there are people who do.”

Keep scrolling to see the most awkward and explosive fantasy suite date moments!

Peter Weber and Madison Prewett

“I don’t want this to feel like it’s all about sex, but this is really a big thing right now for us,” Peter told Madison at the time. “I don’t know how else to do this. I’ll just be very honest and I won’t give any details, but I have been intimate, and I can’t lie to you about that.”
In the end, their values didn’t quite align. “I just can’t wrap my mind around in a week from now, if you’re down on one knee, and six days before that you slept with somebody else,” she responded. “I just can’t wrap my mind around that, I can’t.”

Hannah Brown and Luke Parker

Hannah Brown kept Luke Parker around all season, despite some red flags and the two constantly having communication issues. The final straw came during his overnight date where he told the leading lady he would leave the show if she had been intimate with any of the other finalists but would maybe be OK with a “slip-up.”
The former beauty queen felt very judged by the Georgia native and they ended up getting in an explosive fight where she told him, “I have had sex and Jesus still loves me.”

Colton Underwood and Cassie Randolph

Colton Underwood’s now-infamous fence jump came during his overnight date with Cassie Randolph. The contestant decided to self-eliminate because she did not feel ready to get engaged. Her exit caused the former football player to run away from the producers.
He then eliminated his other finalists — Tayshia and Hannah Godwin — and asked Cassie for a second chance. They dated for over a year and split in May 2020. In April 2021, Colton came out as gay during an interview on Good Morning America.

Jillian Harris and Ed Swiderski

The season 5 couple had serious chemistry and seemed super into each other during their fantasy suite date. Unfortunately, there were some … performance issues.
“I was very nervous, and it just didn’t happen. I couldn’t show her that I am really, truly am in love with her,” Ed Swiderski said at the time. Despite the snafu, Jillian Harris went on to get engaged to the contestant, but they split shortly after.

Rachel Lindsay and Peter Kraus

Peter Kraus was a frontrunner during the entirety of Rachel Lindsay’s season. Unfortunately, he waited until their fantasy suite date to tell her that he didn’t want to propose and instead wanted to date after the show. They ended up breaking up that night, but Rachel found her happily ever after with husband Bryan Abasolo.

Nick Viall and Raven Gates

Raven Gates told Nick Viall she never had an orgasm, and he thought he was up for the challenge. Cut to the next morning, the camera showed her skipping and dancing outside. While that was a bit cringey to watch, Raven later admitted on “The Morning Toast” podcast she never actually had sex with Nick.

Andi Dorfman and Nick Viall

This awkward moment came after Andi and Nick’s overnight date. The leading lady broke things off with the Wisconsin native during the finale and got engaged to ex-fiancé Josh Murray. However, Nick took the split particularly hard and aired their dirty laundry during After the Final Rose.
“If you weren’t in love with me, I’m just not sure why you made love with me,” he said at the time.